read from a blog that women shouldnt expect guys to change for them. if they want to change, they will. and yes i believe this.

oh ya, i realised that most gals, MOST (i wouldnt generalise and speak for all), they hope their boyfriends will be tall, tanned, good-looking, in terms of appearance. in terms of character, haha there is just too much to be demanded. but how many singaporean guys fulfill the tall, tanned,good-looking criteria? and so women realise that the fantasy guy and the real one varies from somewhat different to vastly different. lament but still accept.

isn't it like that for guys? they fantasize about beautiful women with a nice figure to boot. but off screen women cant be that perfect, and so, guys also learn to lower their standards. lament and accept too.

the more romantic point of view on such a state of things is that, well, we really let out hearts lead us, that we really fall in love with the person, not the appearance. but it really is a little sad that fantasy does not become real-life. hahaha

read from another blog and remember this line from a jimmy book:轻佻浮滥的爱情总在秋叶掉落后，草草收场.